If you love yourself and don’t want to be neglected and lonely in your old age, marry two or more wives – Nigerian woman advises men

A Nigerian woman, Aisha Lawal, has advised men who love themselves to marry two or more wives if they want to be lonely and neglected in their old age.  If you love your wife dearly and you don’t want to hurt her feelings, marry only one wife. But if you love yourself and you don’t want to be neglected and lonely in your old age, marry two or more wives (if you have the financial and emotional capacity to manage it well), she wrote in a Facebook post on Friday. Till this moment, the advantages of Polygamy supersedes its disadvantages no matter the angle you are coming from. Polygamy remains one of the best gifts of Allah to men!   The post If you love yourself and don’t want to be neglected and lonely in your old age, marry two or more wives – Nigerian woman advises men appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.

“Clubbing in Naija is just guys with bottles standing around flexing” Wale Gates says after Olamide shared a video of him and Shallipopi at a show

Nigerian-British comedian, Wales Gates, has taken issues with Nigerian men’s idea of clubbing. Indigenous rapper Olamide shared a video of him and Shallipopi at American singer Saweeti’s show in Lagos. Reacting to the video, Wales Gates wrote on X: ‘This is “Clubbing” in naija, just guys with bottles standing around flexing. ‘”I met this girl at the club, and we danced all night long” probably hasn’t been said by a naija clubber in years.’ The post “Clubbing in Naija is just guys with bottles standing around flexing” Wale Gates says after Olamide shared a video of him and Shallipopi at a show appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.

Judge rules Jay-Z’s r@pe accuser can remain anonymous

A New York has ruled that the woman accusing Jay-Z and Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs of r@ping her at age 13 can proceed anonymously in her lawsuit against the rap moguls.In her written order, Judge Analisa Torres also chastised the lawyer representing Jay-Z for what she described as his combative motions and inflammatory language against the plaintiff’s lawyer, calling them inappropriate. The Manhattan jurist said the woman can proceed anonymously at this early stage of the litigation, but she may be required to reveal her identity at a later date if the case proceeds. That would allow defence lawyers to collect facts necessary to prepare for trial. Torres also cited substantial interest from the public.In her lawsuit, the woman who says she was raped at 13 identifies herself as Jane Doe. She said she was living in Rochester in 2000 when she made her way to New York City and befriended a limousine driver who drove her to an after-party for the MTV Music Awards, where she says she was eventually attacked by Jay-Z and Combs.Alex Spiro, a lawyer for Jay-Z, asked the judge to dismiss the entertainer from the woman’s lawsuit and he requested a hearing on the case for the day after he made his requests in writing on 18 December.Citing an interview the plaintiff did on NBC-TV, Spiro wrote that the broadcast revealed glaring inconsistencies and outright impossibilities in the plaintiff’s story. For one thing, the woman said she travelled for five hours from Rochester to watch the music awards show on a jumbotron outside the VMA even though permits and pictures show there was no jumbotron at the event.Spiro also noted that the woman’s father has said he does not recall driving from Rochester to pick his daughter up in New York City, as she says he did.The woman has admitted inconsistencies in her story. Torres wrote in her order Thursday that Spiro, who has been on the case less than three weeks, has submitted a litany of letters and motions attempting to impugn the character of Plaintiff’s lawyer, many of them expounding on the purported urgency of this case.Referring to Jay-Z by his legal last name, the judge added: Carters lawyers relentless filing of combative motions containing inflammatory language and ad hominem attacks is inappropriate, a waste of judicial resources, and a tactic unlikely to benefit his client. The Court will not fast-track the judicial process merely because counsel demands it.Combs remains jailed in New York awaiting a criminal trial on federal s3x trafficking charges. He also faces a wave of s3xual assault lawsuits, many of which were filed by the plaintiff’s lawyer, Tony Buzbee, a Texas attorney who says his firm represents more than 150 people, both men and women, who allege sexual abuse and exploitation by Combs. The lawsuits allege many individuals were abused at parties in New York, California, and Florida after receiving drug-laced drinks.Combs lawyers have dismissed Buzbees lawsuits as shameless publicity stunts, designed to extract payments from celebrities who fear having lies spread about them, just as lies have been spread about Mr. Combs. Jay-Z has said in a statement that Buzbee is trying to blackmail him to settle the Alabama woman’s allegations.  The post Judge rules Jay-Z’s r@pe accuser can remainanonymous appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.

Negotiate peacefully with them but if they prove stubborn, go to court – Nigerian lady calls on women to demand for equal share in family properties

A Nigerian woman, Faith Essien, has called on women to demand an equal share in their family’s properties.   Women are still being left out of their parents’ inheritance in many parts of Nigeria despite a Supreme Court ruling that it is discriminatory to exclude female children, whatever the circumstances of their birth from sharing in the parents’ estate.  The apex in 2014, abolished the ancient culture in Igboland that denies women the right of inheriting property in their father’s house.   A 5-man panel of Justices held that the practice conflicted with section 42(1)(a) and (2) of the 1999 Constitution.  According to the court, Any culture that did-inherits a daughter from her father’s estate or wife from her husband’s property by reason of God instituted gender differentials should be punitively dealt with.  The Supreme Court maintained that The punishment should serve as a deterrent measure and ought to be meted out against the perpetrators of the culture and custom.  In a Facebook post on Friday, December 27, 2024, Ms Essien stated that a woman owns an equal part of her family’s property with her brothers. If your Father owns even a plot of land or a small house and as a Woman, you don’t own a part of it, you should forget about Feminism, she wrote.   Everything your Father owns is your right as a woman. Like your full right. If your father’s house is one room, your brother shouldn’t live there, the house should be rented out and rent shared equally amongst all the children of the family. Or if your brother wants to stay there, he should pay you rent. Start your equality with the Male in your family. Negotiate peacefully with them, but if they prove stubborn, hire a lawyer and go to court. The laws of the federal Republic of Nigeria gives you full and equal rights of inheritance as your Male siblings. In the eyes of law, there’s no gender supremacy. If anybody tells you they will marry you out and as such you don’t deserve a part in your family property, tell all the men that a woman from another family will also marry them. Family properties are collective efforts of Father and Mother, so why do mothers keep quiet and watch their daughters being cheated??? That nonsense should stop. If you feel your girl child shouldn’t inherit your property and doesn’t deserve equal treatment as your Male child, Kpai her at birth. There’s no justifiable reason why any woman should not own equal part of her family property with her brothers. Dear woman, My advice to you is, as you travel for Christmas, tell your Father and kinsmen that you want a share in your family properties. The post Negotiate peacefully with them but if they prove stubborn, go to court – Nigerian lady calls on women to demand for equal share in family properties appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.

ECOWAS reacts to claims by Niger Republic linking Nigeria to terrorism sponsorship

The Economic Community of West African States, ECOWAS, has rejected claims made by the Nigerien government that Nigeria and other member states are involved in sponsoring terrorism.The Nigerien military leader, General Abdourahamane Tchiani this week made new allegations against the Federal Government of Nigeria, claiming that President Bola Ahmed Tinubu is collaborating with France to destabilize Niger Republic. Tchiani accused the Nigerian government of receiving finance from France in exchange for allowing French military presence in a specific area of Borno State.The Nigerien government also alleged that the Lakurawa terrorist group, allegedly aided by foreign security forces, including Nigerias, was responsible for the December 13, 2024 attack on the Niger-Benin oil pipeline.However, Nigerias Ministry of Foreign Affairs has refuted these claims, expressed its support for Nigerias peacekeeping initiatives and condemned the allegations by Niger as unfounded. The statement by ECOWAS reads in part, The Commission stands firmly with Nigeria and other ECOWAS member states against allegations that they are sponsoring terrorism.ECOWAS characterized Nigeria as a generous and magnanimous country that has consistently advanced peace and security efforts not only in the West African subregion but across the African continent. The Commission called on all member states to prioritize dialogue and avoid making accusations that lack credible evidence. The post ECOWAS reacts to claims by Niger Republic linking Nigeria to terrorism sponsorship appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.